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Youalsoknowit'slovewhenyou'tstoptalkiher.AlmosteverycoupleI'veeverihatoorseddate,theytalkedforhoursandhours.Forsome,fallinginloveislikewalkingintoasoundproofalbooth,aplacewhereyoutellall.
Findinglovebelikedisgagildedballroomohersideyapartment,aimelikefindingapairofgreatoldbluejeansthatareexactlyyoursizeandseemasifyou'vewornthemforever.I'ttellyouhowmaoldmetheykheywereiheyfottoaroundtheirboyfrieheyfellateasehangingaroundhiminflannelpajamas.There'ssomemoderntruthtoderella'stale—it'slovewhenyou'veincrediblyfortable,thesperfectly.
Finally,Ithinkyou'veinloveifyoumakeeachhattheveryworsttimes—whentheIRSisauditingyouorwhenyavertibleinarainstormorwhenyourhairisturninggray.Assomeooldme,90pertofbeinginloveismakiher'slivesfunnierahewaytothedeathbed.
SevenyearsagoIstartedwritingaboutloveandweddingsfortheimesina;Vows".AndnowthatIhavebeenonthisbeaf,astrahinghashappened:I'msideredaoruthis,loveisstillmostlyamysterytome.TheonlythingIfidentlysayisthis:Loveisasplentifulasoxygen.Youdon'thavetobethin,naturallyblond,super-successful,soed,knowledgeableaboutpolitiparticularlygtofindit.
I'veintervielenontheirlueveryway—aballerinawithis,aphysicistwhohadbeeed)disastrousblinddates,aetplayerwhowasasingledadandcouldbarelypaytherent.Butlove,whentheyfoundit,broughthumor,dlelight,home-eals,fuure,poetryandloionsintotheirlives.
Whenpeopleaskmewheretofiellastoryaboutoneofmyfirstjobiwaswithaafamazine.Ihadnoexperienceorskills,andhedidn'tforonesesiderhirihegavemesomeadviceIwill.Hesaid,"Gooutintotheworld.Workhardaeonwhatyoulovet.Ifyoubeegood,wewillfindyou."
That'seoplelookingforlovetowaitforthat"Iwoery"feeling—ait!
Don'treadarticlesaboutho,seduotizeamate.Don'tworryaboutyourlipstickht,becauseit'snotgoingtomatter.Justliveyourlifewell,takecareofyourself,anddon'thopetoomuch.Lovewillfindyou.
&uallyiteve28,Imetmyhusband.Atastatioore,Iwasbuyierribbon,andhewaslookingatFilofaxes.Irememberthathiseyesperfectlymatchedhisfadedjeahatmysneakerswerefullofsaalksaboutthosesneakersandhowtheyevokedhischildhood—boheonthesandinahosethingsthathecherished.
HowdidIknowthatitwastruelove?Ourfirstrealdatelastedforninehours:wejust'tstoptalking.Ihadodanmylife,butIcewithhim,perfestep.Ihavelear'slovewhenyoufinallystoveryourtoes.
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Ihaveetocherishwriti;Vows"oryIhear,Ihaveproofthatlove,optimism,guts,grace,perfeersandgoodlufact,exist.Love,inmyopinion,isnotafantasy,uffofromanovelsorfairytales.It'sasgrittyahesubway,itesaroundjustasregularly,andaslongasyoustickitoutoform,youwon'tmissit.
我对爱情的初识始于12岁,那时,我在一所舞蹈学校上学。
记得第一天,我就想自己会疯狂地爱上某个男孩,并和他接吻,在华尔兹中共度一年的校园时光。
课上,我坐在女生当中,等着某个男孩来邀我跳舞。
令我倍感吃惊的是,我总是最后一个被邀请出列。
最初,我以为男生们搞错了。
我长得可爱又漂亮,打网球没人能赢我,爬树比一只猫还快。
为何他们不争着邀请我呢?
一节又一节课,我看着那些穿着蓝色运动服和灰色裤子的男生围着那些打扮得花枝招展的女孩转,而女生们的马尾辫则在脑后有节奏地甩来甩去,让我不解的是,他们的舞步是那样和谐。
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