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We’veallbeenbrainerealltaughttheworkethidsuffer)tillyoudie,orifyou'reluckyretire.Wedon'thavetimetowasteonfrivolities.oofulfill.Wehavetobeserious,workhard,riseinourcareer,makelotsofmoney,andmakeearningmoneyandadvanourcareerapriority.”
Iwishtogethatprinmylife.IknowthatwhehingsIenjoydoing,thingsworkoutbetterforme.IknowthatwhenIdosomethingagainstmywill,agaidoesn’tworkoutwell.Iknowthatstressietajobdoneusuallytakestwigastakianddoingthatsametaskatsomeothertimeinarelaxedmanner.
Wegethecriteriabywhichwedecidewhattodoieadof“Willitbringinlotsofmoneyoradvancemycareer”
,weoaskourselves,“WillIenjoydoingthis?Willthisbefun?AmIlettihis?”
Ifyouswer“yes”
tothesequestioepossiblythisisaskforyou!
Ifitissomethingthatmustbedoaxes,dishes,etc,thesolutionistofiodothemforyou.Therearesomepeoplewhowillenjoyaodorefernottodo.Really!Forexample,Iamnottheworld’sbesthousekeeper.Idonotreallyenjoyg,washingfloors,wiherearesomepeoplewhoeiveaspectofthisworkasatisfaajobwelldoomybeopaysomeohisworksoItakethattimeearhingsthatIenjoy.
Weareallverydifferentahioeaeofus.Justbeeoneelseenjoysapartigdoesyoumust.WetrustwhatIcallthe“fuoassistusinknoarticularaistheoneforus.Webreakawayfromtheruleofthumbthatjudgesthiheybringmoneyorcareeradva.Wegethattomakingourdesbasedoiuspleasureandpersonalsatisfa.Doestheworkyoudoleaveyoufeelingproudahyourself?Areyoufollowingthevoiceof“should”
sortheoto”
?
&heprisstrong.Ifiruggliaskanditendsupdraggi.Haveyouhethingsthatyoudislikedoihatseemtetdoheoppositeviewpoihesayiimeflieswhenyfun!”
&ogoagainstthatandtrustingthe“funindex”
isanongoi.Everysmallstepis,atthesametime,abigleap.Eachstepwillmoveyouawayfromdissatisfawithyourlifeaoself-love,self-ace,self-esteemandjoyinyoureverydayexistence.
Anytimeyouigiing,youaccumulateself-loathinganddisappoiiny.Yourinnerfeelsletdoortadowheinnerchild'sbeliefthateverybodyelse'swishesaremoreimportantthanitsowsdesiresarerelegatedtothelowestpriorityo.
&'syourlife!Whyletsomeoehowyou“should”
liveit?Askyourselfsyouwaothevoiwhichwilltellyouwhatwouldreallymakeyoufeelfulfilledandsatisfied.Youarethebossofyourlife!Afterall,it’syours,isn'tit?
我们都被洗脑了!
我们被灌输了这样的职业道德:“工作(和忍受)到生命的最后一刻,幸运的话,直到退休。
我们没有时间浪费在无聊的事情上。
我们有体现自身价值的责任。
我们一定要认真而努力地工作,在事业上进步,赚更多的钱,并把赚钱和事业进步看做生活的首要目标。”
我希望变更自己的人生计划。
我知道,做自己感兴趣的事,我会做得很好;做自己憎恶的事,我会做得一塌糊涂;在压力下工作,通常会事倍功半;在轻松的环境中做,同样的工作却会事倍功半。
我们可以改变生活中衡量某事是否该做的标准。
我们需要扪心自问的不应是“它是否会赚大钱或能否让事业更上一层楼”
,而是“我对这些感兴趣吗?这件事有意思吗?我要大干一番吗?”
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