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实践箴言,生活改变HowtoRefillayLife
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艾伯特·内斯比特Albert
Onedayaboutfifteenyearsago,Isuddeofacewithmyselfaherewassomethiyaboutmylife.Myfriendsandassociatesperhapsdidn'tseeit.Bythegenerallyacceptedstandards,Iwas“successful”
.IrosperousmanufagdIledwhatisusuallyreferredtoasan“active”
life,bothsodiitdidn'tseemtometobeaddinguptoanything.Iwasgoingaroundincircles.Ilayedhard,aysoonIdiscoveredIwashittingthehighballsharderthanIneeded.Iwasn’tadidateforAlcoholious,buttobehohmyselfIhadtoadmitIwasdrihanwasgoodforme.Itmayhavebeenoutofsheerboredo
&owoodo.ItoethatImighthavegotteightlyinmyjob,tothesacrificeofthebasiaterialisticvaluesoflife.ItstruckmeabruptlythatIwasbeingquiteselfish,thatmymajoriinpeoplewasiome,whattheyrepresentedasbusiaployees,notwhatImightmeantotheIrememberedthatasmymotherseoSundayschoolasaboy,andeosinginthechurchchoi,sheusedtotellmethatthevalueofwhatshecalledagoodbadwasinhaviotieto.IputiregtheGoldenRuleaheotherfirstprinciplesofity.IbegaerestedinYMCAwork.
Ithappejustatthistimewewerehavierfightswiththeunionatourplant.Theoe:Whatreallyistheirpointofview,andwhy?Ibegantoseeabasisfortheirsuspis,theiroften-shoulderpointofview,aodosomethingaboutit.
Weeoapplyliterallyapplypriswithemployees,topraple,somethingoftheGoldehemen'srespoheywerecedweweresincere,wasremarkable.Theefforthaspaidforitspains,andIdon'tmeanindollars.Imeanindividendsofhumandignity,ofaman'sprideinhisjobandinthepany,knowingthatheisacogbutalivepersonalpartofitandthatitdoesn'tmatterwhetherhebelongstoachurchmentationofhisskinislightordark.
ButIspeakwithmostauthorityonhowthisgeofattitudeaffedmypersonaloutlookonlife.Perhaps,again,manyofmyfriendsdidhedifference.
ButIhatfeeliiococktailsoutofboredom,wasfillingupihapurpose:Toliveafulllifewithanareofotherpeople.IdoendforasedthatIhavesuddenlybeeaparagon.MyfaultsarestilllegionandIknowthe
Butitseemstomebettertohavealittlereligionandpractithinkpiouslyanddonothingaboutit.Ifeelbetteradjusted,morematurethanIeverhaveinmylifebefore.Ihavenofear.Isaythisnotboastfullybutinallhumility.Theactualappliofprincipleshasgedmylife.
大约15年前的一天,我在面对自己时,突然觉得自己的生活很空虚。
也许这是朋友和同事所无法理解的。
按照公认的标准来看,我是一位“成功者”
。
我领导着一个生意不错的制造公司,是社交界及商界中的“活跃分子”
。
然而,对我而言,这些并没有太大的意义。
我始终都在圈内转来转去。
我努力工作,尽情享乐,但很快就发现自己饮酒过度。
虽然我并不准备加入嗜酒者互诫协会,但说真的,我不得不承认自己喝了太多的酒。
也许,这是因为我的生活实在太无聊了。
于是,我开始想着去做点儿什么。
突然,我想到或许是由于自己将过多的精力投入工作,而付出了失去最基本精神生活价值的代价。
我顿时明白,自己一向都很自私,我只对别人对我意味着什么,作为我的生意伙伴或员工会为我带来什么价值感兴趣,而不在意我对他们而言意义何在。
记得孩提时,母亲常告诉我,一位虔诚信徒的人生价值在于他拥有精神的寄托。
当时,她还送我去主日学校学习,并鼓励我参加教堂唱诗班。
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