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&erdefinesadvig，“areendatiardtoacourseofa.”
Theexpression，“Ineedsomeadvice”
hastobeohstatementsintheEnglishlamakesitremarkablyterrifyingisthattheadvisorisusuallytedwithitoutoftheblueandwithlittle.Mydaughterisahis.LatelyIhavebeeopredishewillcall.ItusuallyhappenswhenIamhaviypeofdaywhehiobegoingwell.IamactuallyrelaxedwithfewthingsthathavetobedoisalmostasifIsendoutasigIamreadyforthege.Thecallalwaysbeginswiththeexpression，“Dad”
.Thewordisnotasimportantashowitisstated.Itsouionbeingaskedbysomeowanttobeheard.Inotherwords，itisalittlequieterthanawhisper.IkisI，becauseshedidthedIamtthatsheknowsthesoundofmyvoice.ItisalmostasifthewordisasignalthatIhadbetterbeready.
WhenmydaughterwassmallIlivingheradvifacerelybelievethatshealsoe.ForthemostimportantthingaDaddoisgethischildreadyforlife.NotthatIeverthoughtIwasreadybutatleastIhavebeeosurvivemyyears，sofar.SheusedtositrealeoronmylapandIwouldexplaieriesoflifetoher.Iwouldtellherofmoralsahatmadelifeasgoodasitpossiblybe.Yearslater，whenmydaughterhitthewoeenagedyears，shedidn'tacceptmyadviceasshedidi.Infact，sheobviouslydreadedit.HaveittoheranywaybecauseIwaosurviveherteenagedyears.Isurvivedthemsowhyshouldn'tshelisteakeinthekIhadfromtheexperienypast.ForyearssheomeforadvicebutIuedtosubmitit.NowthatIthinkofit，myfatherdidthesame.
Soon，toosooartedherowwasasthoughourseparatioedthatshewouldoneed，a，myadvice.Atfirstthiswasagoodthing，inthatIappreciatedthefactthatshethoughtmyorththetime.AfterawhileIcametotherealizationthatImightnotalwaysberight.Istartedtofearmyowoherquestions.
Mydaughterisnottheonlypersoniasksforadvice.Mywifedoesitinanoddway.IkheaoherquestionbutitisalmostasthoughshewantstoiimeswhenIgiveheradviceshetakesitinandbasicallymakesherowndeesshegivesmethatoddlookthatasks，“lawereyouborherwayIdomybest.
Mypareedtoaskformyadvice.Thiswasverydiffietouand.MostofmylifemyfatheraheoodirehowIshouldhauatioheoneswhosurvivedtheiryearssothattheycoulddirectmetowardcorrectdeowtherolesseemtuessIshouldtakeitasaehisshiftihattheyhavefiherealizationthatIamakiow，ifIlybelievethissamerealizationandfinallyrelaxinmynewrole.
Myfolk'squestionsusuallysurroundtheirpreparatioagesoftheirlives.Ihatethesesituationsbecause，ifIadmitthattheyaregettingold，IamliterallyresighefactthatIamnotfaroff.IaioasI，prayingthatIamadvisiherightthingsbuthowcouldIpossiblyknow?Unlikegiviomydaughter，giviomyparentsinvolvesmeguessingwhattodowithouttheexperiengthroughwhattheyarepresentlyguesstheyaskmebecausetheytrustme，likeIhavealwaystrustedthe
Iamateafact，Iamahighschoolteacherithyoungadultswhoareabouttoembarkoincludecollege，themilitary，orwork.EverydayIamaskedquestihowtheyshaheirfutures，awayfromalifethatteredontheirpubliostpeopledon'trealizethatgraduatingfromhighschooliso“rightsofpassage”
oursocietyhas.Thisistruebecausetheseyoungareleavihadtakenupover75%lives.
So，Iadvicethemastowhatindustrieswillbeimportaheygetoutofcollege;whatmilitaryservicetheyshouldlookinto，ioachievewhattheythioaesjusttotelltheseyoungmelifeisawandthattheyarefortuageoftheirliveswheretheyareabouttobeeadults.EverytimetheyleaveIpraythatIgavethemgoodadviybest.
&imespeopleIdon'tknowaskformyadvice.Theparentsofmystudentsusuallyaskwhattheyshoulddotomaketheirchild'sfuturebright.Sometimestheyaskwhattheyshoulddobecausetheirchilddoesn'tlistebelievewhattheyaretellingtheIassumetheyaskmebecausetheybelieveateachershouldknowtheahatortheylookatmygrayhairandbeardamyageesmyabilitytoknow.
ThebasiwithWebster'sdefinitionofadviceisthatitdoesn'ttakeintoattheadvisor.Doestheadvisoruheproblemaheabilitytohelpwithadethepast，didIgivemydaughter，pares，ahecorrectadvice?
IthinkI'llgivemydaughteradaskherforsomeadvice!
韦氏字典中“建议”
一词的定义如下：“对某种行为提出意见或忠告。”
“我需要点建议”
是英语中最令人厌恶的话语之一。
之所以这样说，是因为在无任何预兆的情况下，给建议的人总要面对那些未知的事情。
在这方面，我的女儿是专家。
最近，我总能预测到她打电话的时间，而且总是在万事如意的情况下，电话铃就响起。
犹如我总是向女儿暗示：我已经准备好了！
对于这种无法逃避的事，我总是心态坦然。
“爸爸”
，电话总是这样开始，其实“爸爸”
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