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&uroafriendwhinmydaskedher，“Whatdoyoulikeaboutyourself?”
Werodeinsilenceforseveralminutes.Fiomeandsaid，apologetically，“I'tthinkofanything.”
Iwasstunned.Myfrie，g，andpassioshe'tseeanyofthat.
Iknowshe'snotaloeemhasbeethenumber-oneissueplaguieGod'sassurahe'sabsolutelyostofus'tbelievehemeansus.It'sliketheicaleditorwhotellsthecubreporter，“Ifyourmothersaysshelovesyou，checkitout.”
Iorterfor12years.OhingsIlearnedinreseargastarbagei”
.Ifyourrawdataisflawed，youendupwithafaulty.Thesameistrueeseeourselves.Ifwelackself-ce，maybeithfla>
&yis，inhundredsofsubtleways，ourculture，family，friehoughtlife—spiretoundermineource.Wegrowupinfamiliesvoidofaffirmatiemehebuildingblockstoself-wefindourselvessmathemiddleofaworldthatliowoHollywoodstarletsandBarbie-dollfigures.Ourpaycheck，ourtitle，orsomeotherartificialyardstickgivesustemporaryeheworldofTheAccepted.Butis，weknowitisn'treal.Howdowefindourwaytothetruth?
I’mteybrotallthegeouaingmanuals，ts，ortomakesenseofputers.WhenIfirsthadtolearnhouterformyjob，IwasceditwastheendoflifeasIk.
Irememberwithpainfulclarityabeginner'sputerclasswheretheinstructortoldusto“pressanykey”
.Isearvainforthe“aheendoftheclass，IwasIwasn&#htodrivemyselfhome，muchlessdressforworkthehisitethefactthatImanagedahome，afamily，ajob，andaprofessionalstaff.
Whywasitsohumiliating?Beyselftothe1irldoorwhoeffortlesslysurfedtheoresearchhertermpaperswhileIstruggledjusttologon.Insteadofsimplygthatteicalprowessisrengths，IcludedImustbestupid.It>
Peoplerespectusasmuchaswerespectourselves.That'swhytheabsenceofself-telegraphtoothersnottobelieveinus.
Fgledtoreentgraciously.Ifsomeoneentedmyhair，I’ddistit.I’dsaymyhairstylemademyfacelookfatorthatmyhairwasamousycolor.WhatIreallymeantwas，theremustbesomemistake.I’mnotward.Idon'tlikemyselfand'treallybelieveyoudo，either.Thetroubleis，ifwepersistinputtingourselvesdowuallypeoplestarttobelievewe’reright.
&heproblemisn'tfaultydata.Wehaveaureofourselvesorasituatioulatethefirsttimesomeonegesus.
Severalyearsago，Idiscrape-sizedlumpo.Mydoctorscheduledoutpatieaway.Amonthlater，whenIresumedperiodicself-examinatiohesamelumpio-reachplace.Iwasofit!WhehedesthemighthavemissedthelumpiioedIwaswrong.Itotpossiblybealump，hesaid，becausehehadremovedit.Afterall，hewasthedoctor.
IgotoffthephoingwhatI’dfeltwithmyownhahalcesgavemethecetoinsisthere-examiwhitherelutlyaowledgedthat，yes，itdidseemtobetheinallump.Heremoveditinasedsurgery.
IofessthatIidbecauseIdidn'tueigs.Yet，evenafteraowledgingthatI’mactuallyaprettyiperson，Istillhadtogrievethefaountofclasseswouldeverpletelysolvemyteeptitude!
AnotherlieIbelievedaboutmyselfwasthatI’dbeenselfishfohetruthis，Inearlydiedgivingbirthtomydaughter，andmyhusbanddidn'tt.Still，Ispentyearsfeelinglikeaher—likeIshouldhavetrustedGodtoprotesubsequentchildbirth.
I—inmyechildwasGod'swillforme.I’verejectedtheheless，IhadtogrievethatI’dhehousefulofI’dal>
最近，我问坐在我车里的一位朋友：“你喜欢自己什么？”
沉默了好几分钟后，她转向我，满脸歉意地说：“我想不出来。”
我十分诧异，她竟看不到自己的任何优点。
她是一个多么聪明、美丽迷人而又富有同情心的姑娘啊！
我深知并非只有她一人如此，自尊心较低已成为女性最大的困扰。
尽管上帝保证深爱着我们，但我们大多数人不能相信他是说的“我们”
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