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第61章四条基本价值观
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1.Whatarethefourvalues？
2.What’stherelatiohem？
One’sbeliefsarerevealednotsomuwordsorinformacreedsasiionsonwhiehabituallyathebasicvaluesbywhichallchoicesaretested.
&oneofmyowemwaslaidinchildhoodbyparehatpersoycamefirst.Theywillpeoplethiionillyouthinkofyourselfifyoudothisorfailtodothat？”
Thuslivinguptoone’sowionofoneselfbecameabasidthequestion“eoplethink？”
tookasubordinateplace.
Asedbasicvalue，insomewaysaensio，Iowetoanoldcollegeprofessorwhohadsufferedmorethanhisshareofgriefandtrouble.Overaous：“Theohatreallymattersistobebiggerthahattoyou.Nothingthattoyouishalfsoimportantasthewayinwhieetit.”
GraduallyIrealizedthatherewasthebasisoftheonlyrealsedpeaindthatahumanbeinghave.Nobodybesurewhendisaster，disappoi，injustiiliatiohroughnofaultofhisown.Norebeguaraone’sownmistakesahewaywemeetlifeisourstodwhey，fortitude，dignityandpassionareourchoice，thethingsthattouslosetheirpoweroverus.
&awobasicvaluesledtoathird.Ifwhatoneisaslifeareoffirstimportaimpressedbyanother’smousorpower，nordoesonejudgepeoplebytheirrace，colororsocialposition.Thisopensupaorldofrelationships，forwhenfriendshipsarebasedonqualitiesofmindandcharaehavefriendsamongoldandyoung，riousanduedaered，andamongpeopleofallradallnations.
&hreebasicvalues，afourthbeevitable.Itisoyandobligatioeasocialorderinwhioreimportantthanthings，ideasmorepregadgets，andinwhidividualsarejudgedonthebasisofpersonalworth.Moreover，forthisjudgmenttobefairhumahaveanopportunityforthefullestdevelopmentofwhichtheyarecapable.Ohusledtoworkforaworldoffreedomahroughthosesodinstitutionsossibleforpeopleeverywheretorealizetheirhighestpotentialities.
Perhapsallthisaddsuptoabeliefinwhathasbeehehumanuseofhumanbeiofffromtherestoftheanimalworldbyourcapasciouslytotransdourphysieedsanddesires.Menmustthemselveswithfoodandwithotherphysieeds，aprotectthemselvesandtheirownfrombodilyharm，buttheseactivitiesarenotexclusivelyhuman.Manyanimalsthemselveswiththesethings.orship，pray，orfeelpassion，whenainting，asuorasohinkandreason，pursueideas，seektruth，orreadabook，wheheless，whehenobleahegood，whenweco-operatewithourfellowmentobuildabetterworld，ourbehaviorisworthyofourstatusashumanbeings.
人类的信仰并非全是通过言辞或形式的教条，以及对一个人行为习惯的设想或其做出选择所依据的价值观所体现出来的。
孩提时，父母的教诲正是我个人基本价值观的来源，他们相信人格是一切之首。
他们从不问：“人们会怎么想？”
而是问：“如果你做这件事而不做那件，你会怎么想？”
因此，按自己的意愿生活便成为了最基本的价值观，而“人们会怎么想？”
这个问题则退居二线。
从某种程度上来说，第二条基础价值观就是对第一条的延伸，这是我从一位大学老教授那里了解到的。
他所遭受的不幸与痛苦比常人要多得多。
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