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第14章主动还是被动
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DoYouActorReact？
佚名Anonymous
Iwalkedwithmyfrieahernight，aapaper，thankingtheneersellerpolitely.Thevendordidn’teve.
“Asullenfellow，isn’the？”
Iented.
“Oh，he’sthatwayeverynight，”
shruggedmyfriend.
“Thenwhydoyouuetobesopolitetohim？”
Iasked.
“Whynot？”
inquirednayfriend.“WhyshouldIlethimdegoingtoact？”
AsIthoughtaboutthisier，itoethattheimportantwordwas“act”
.Myfriendactstole；mostofusrea.
Hehasasenseofinnerbalancewhichislamostofus；heknowswhoheis，whathestandsfor，howheshouldbehave.Herefusestoreturnincivilityfromincivility，behewouldnolongerbeinandofhisownduct.
WhenweareeheBibletoodforevil，welookuponthisasamoralinjun—whichitis.Butitisalsoapsychologicalpresforouremotioh.
Nobodyisuheperpetualreactor.Hisotionalgravityishinhimself，whereitbelongs，butintheworldoutsidehiHisspiritualtemperatureisalwaysbeingraisedorloweredbythesocialclimatearoundhim，andheisamerecreatureatthemercyoftheseelements.
Praisegiveshimafeelingofeuphoria，whichisfalse，becauseitdoesnotlastaselfapproval.Criticismdepresseshimmorethanitshould，becauseitshisowlyshakyopinionofhimself.Snubshurthim，asuspipopularityinanyquarterrouseshimtobitterness.
&yofspiritotbeatilwebeastersofourownadattitudes.Toletaermiherweshallberuderacious，elatedordepressed，istorelinquishtroloverourowies，whichisultimatelyallwepossess.Theonlytruepossessionisself-possession.
前两天晚上，我和朋友散步，走到一个书报摊前，朋友买了一份报纸，很礼貌地跟那位报贩道谢，而那报贩却置若罔闻。
“他可真是个沉闷的家伙，不是吗？”
我批评道。
“噢，他每个晚上都这样。”
朋友耸耸肩说。
“那你为什么还对他这么有礼貌呢？”
我问道。
“为什么不呢？”
朋友反问道，“我怎么做，为什么要让他决定呢？”
后来，我反复思索这件小事，发现最重要的字眼是“主动去做”
。
朋友的举动是主动待人，而我们大多数都是被动的回应。
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